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fast_friends
Membership:
Moderated
Posting Access:
All Members
THIS IS A CLOSED COMMUNITY! THEREFORE YOU MUST BE ASKED TO JOIN AND YOU MAY BE ASKED TO LEAVE IF YOU DO NOT FOLLOW THE RULES!

SO WHAT IS THIS?
this is a community where people who have an eating disorder which involves being on a "fast". You can discuss anything about your eating disorder in the community but you will also have other people from the community that you can contact (through email or instant messaging) if you have a problem or just need to talk to someone. People in this community will be "fast friends". Meaning that you can have friends who are here for you during your fasting time who understand where you are coming from.

HOW DO I JOIN?
well you can't just join! In fact you might not be able to join at all! The thing about this community is that only one person from each state is allowed to join! That way you can feel comfortable knowing that your next door neighbor isn't a member of the community and reading your personal posts! I know this might be a problem if more then one person from a state wish to join but that is just how the cookie crumbles! I will also accept people from outside of the united states! so feel free to join as well!
If you would like to join then you MUST email me (the mod) with the following survery filled out! And please put "fast friends survey" as your subject! If it is not the subject then I will delete the email and not even read it! I NEVER open emails if I a.I don't know the person or b.the email doesn't have the proper subject... (sorry I am paranoid about getting a virus!)

SURVEY
1.Name
2.State where you live-if from USA, if not list country(DO NOT LIE! no one else will know about where you are from but I need to know the accurate state so I don't let in more then one person!)
3.Current weight
4.Current height
5.Lowest weight
6.Highest weight
7.Short term goal weight
8.Long term goal weight
9.Part of your body you like
10.Part of your body you would like to CHANGE (please have it relate to your ed)
11. Longest time you have been on a fast without breaking it
12. What ED do you have
13.How long have you had an ED
14.What started your ED *optional-but it would be helpful*
15.Why do you want to join this community
16. Livejournal username

Please know that your "stats" (questions 3-10 will NOT be shared with the entire group so be HONEST!)

if you are accepted you will recieve a conformation email

I'M A MEMBER...NOW WHAT?
well now that you have recieved your email it is time to introduce yourself! you will now be able to post in the community so please introduce yourself! and say anything you want! and remember to comment on other peoples posts as well!

WHAT CAN I POST?
-questions
-concerns
-tips
-if you are having a problem either with your ED or with something else
-If you are on a fast please post when you have started and when you have stopped and how much you lost of gained!
-keep us up to date on how you are doing emotionally and physically with your ED and with your fasting!
-If you are on a fast you may update everyday but that is only optional
-comment on peoples updates wiht advice,tips
-GIVE LOVE AND SUPPORT TO EVERYONE IN THIS COMMUNITY!

RULES
1. if you do not have an ED do not apply! and do not be a shit and harass the members!
2.be nice to everyone! kindness and love and the best ways to support one another
3. If you do not have an ED and you think you might "want one" then don't even think about applying! I do not encourage having an ED and no one here will teach you how to have one!
4. when giving advice be positive. no negative vibes are welcome here!
5. If you are posting a picture (no matter what it is) you MUST put it behind an LJ cut! and if it has any nudity or is to be considered at all "inappropriate" for younger children then you MUST say that in your post that goes with the pictures!
6. If you do not follow the above mentioned rules then you will be asked to leave!


ONE MORE THING
This community is to make friends who have the same problem, therefore you MUST be willing to give out your aim username (screen name) and email address to the members of the community! ONLY the members in the community will have these and that personal information will not be open to the public! however if you are not willing to give one of those two things (email or sn) then you CANNOT join this community!

Thanks and have fun!


*THE MODERATOR(S) OF THIS COMMUNITY DO NOT SHARE THE SAME OPINIONS EXPRESSED BY THE MEMBERS OF THIS COMMUNITY AND THEREFORE DO NOT TAKE ANY RESPONSIBLITY FOR THE VIEWS,THOUGHTS, OR IDEAS EXPRESSED IN ANY PART OF THIS COMMUNITY! YOU ARE LIABLE FOR YOUSELF IF YOU CHOOSE TO ENTER THIS COMMUNITY AND BECOME AN ACTIVE MEMBER*

^sorry guys I had to put that there so that I wasn't liable for anything that happens in the community!



EMAIL YOUR SURVEYS TO: takemeforwhoiam@lycos.com
WITH THE SUBJECT: Fast Friends Survey

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